Love...

I believe, Love is something which everybody does with themselves, expect that lot of others do with them and also expect that they do it for few others...but both these expectations are false...

...where as with Hate, it is exactly the opposite!!

Self Sympathy is more dangerous than AIDS

• I am oppressed for 100's of years...
• I am deprived of education...
• I am weak, hence cannot work hard...
• There is no school in my town, so I cannot study...
• All my class mates have computer and Internet and hence they obviously do better...
• There are only 3 seats, all of them go to reserved categories...
• I am very poor, don't even have money for 2 meals, so cant help...
• I am very old, nobody needs me, I am very sad...
• I have two children and both are autistic, God has been very unfair to me...
• I have been struggling for a movie chance, but I am not very handsome like Abhishek, so...

:-( :-(

Whom are you telling this and why?

Do you really think, somebody else other than you will solve your problems? If you don't care to solve your problem, why the hell do you think somebody will fix it for you.

Rather than saying these things, do something which is anything of your choice; the moment you start doing that something...whole world will be different.

:-) :-)

Wish me (and you) a very happy...this moment!

...and every other one which follows, as every one is new and each of those brings with it, an opportunity to be Happy!!
Then why wait for a whole year to wish happiness for ourselves??

//Though wishing alone doesnt accomplish anything, it is that first essential, important, small step towards any goal!//

Dil pe mat le yaar!!

• There was a day, when I was sad...I had failed my college exams;
• Then again I learnt new things in life during that time, I was happy;
• I passed, finally...I was happy...soon I had to struggle finding job...I was unhappy
• I found a job, I was happy; But, I had to work...I was not happy;
• I kept making progress in professional life, I was happy; but that took me away from my parents, I was unhappy
• I come Home once in while, I am Happy; I know, I will soon go away, so I am unhappy
• I have a wonderful family, I am happy; then there are always ups and downs there as well;

There can be lot more such examples, but the point is made!

I have witnessed quite a few triggers in life which either bring happiness or sadness, and now they have lost their effect...I most of the times only witness those events without much attachment!

Whatever happens in my day to day life, these moments of Happiness and Sadness always keep coming in for sure, can I control them? maybe to a small extent, but grossly - I cant do much!;

So why take it to heart, be it happiness or sorrow?

Andhra/ Telengana...a creative solution!

Let us first understand the matter -

1. Telengana remains backward and other areas are flourishing (maybe a perception, however this needs to be addressed)

2. Hyderabad will become a point of contention, it is much larger than just which geography it belongs. Whole world has invested and it should be viewed in that way

3. For a common man it is just the telugu pride, what will happen all over the world is telugu's get divided and that is not good.

How do we provide a solution to all the above?

Let us research if there is a creative way of creating 2 governing bodies, but one state...something like "United States of Andhra Pradesh"...If it has not been done before, maybe then it is a constitution amendment, should explore.

This will sell well, because, telugu sentiment is very high and people don't want to be divided that way. Telengana public also only want extra focus on Telengana and their governance.

A sample idea could be

1 Chief Minister and 2 separate assemblies one each for Telengana and others, headed by separate speakers, these assemblies also will function from their location/ city of convenience...This can be tried for 5 years and even then there is no satisfaction, then we can get back to other solutions...

Divorce

There was a marriage materialized between Andhra Pradesh and Telengana, 50 years ago. They were not an ideal couple but when they were not fighting, they did well, like any couple in the world.

One of the fruits of this successful/ unsuccessful marriage is a child called Hyderabad (at least the modern version of it). Now mummy, papa have fallen out completely and are heading for a divorce. Both of them are saying - "Woh toh theek hai, lekin baccha mere saath hi rahega"

... this is the real problem in any divorce, kid's suffer. Or like in western world, let the kid go his way, equi-distant from both parents, when the child is old enough!

kya yeh possible hai?

this is a real drama of politics, ego and power

Intelligence & Emotions

Intelligence helps you to know what is coming next, already & that will reduce the emotional impact, you are more prepared!

while this may seem like one somebody who is intelligent is not emotional, but he or she has gone through it already and as it was internal and with no evident reason, it goes unnoticed.

//the reason I am writing this is not yet clear to me, but I wanted to keep it documented for my re-reading later//